Life Profit

Wake up.  Take a shower.  Brush your teeth.  Comb your hair.  Get dressed.  Go to work.  Go home.  Have dinner.  Play with the kids.  Watch that show you’ve had DVR’d since last month.  Check your emails one last time.  Go to bed.

Sound like a regular day?  What did you gain in life profit today?

Life profit?  Like…how much did I earn today?  No.  How much did you do today to make today different than the last?

Recently at a conference I heard Dustin Garis talk about the concept of life profit (or #lifeprofit for those who Tweet).  The idea that new experiences give a bigger profit than the mundane routines that each of us so easily fall into day after day.  I’m as guilty as the next.  In fact, that first paragraph pretty much sums up my weekdays.  I like routines.  They are easy and they provide comfort.  But what are those routines costing me?  A feeling of meaningful work?  The thrill of doing something new and daring?  The dreams that I’ve had since childhood?  Maybe telling myself that I’m no one special and that I can’t possible help someone else when I already have so much on my plate?

The truth is we all need to find a way to raise our life profits.  We need to find a way to get ourselves out of the red and boldly step into the black.  How can we do this?  Start small is my best answer.  Find something different today to do and then find something new to do tomorrow.  Maybe you start by telling that person in line in front of you in the grocery store how much you love their scarf.  Or, send an email to the person in your office that you’re sure you can be friends with but have always been too shy to reach out to before.  Each step is a step towards feeling more connected.  Not just to others but to your own life.

If you always wanted to be more involved in your community-now is the time to capitalize on those life profit experiences.  Don’t remember only 3 days out of your last month!  Today is the day.  The magical, amazing day that you can make difference.  Volunteer through Serve Grant County.  Or attend an event, maybe like the Hoosier Shakes production of Twelfth Night and Pericles in Marion (http://hoosiershakes.com/), or just reach out to a friend that you haven’t seen in ages and ask to have dinner.

Don’t ask where the time went.  Start today.  Who knows how wealthy you can be when you start focusing on life profit.

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A Deeper Connection

The tagline for Serve Grant County is Connect. Serve. Restore.

Connect…one small word that has so much meaning in our daily lives.

On a mundane basis it can be ten emails a week notifying you that someone wants to “connect” with you on LinkedIN.  Or that endlessly irritating message you get when trying to start-up Netflix: “Connection lost”.  A happier occasion might be an old friend that messages you on Facebook wanting to re-connect.  Any way you look at it our lives are filled with the need to unite with the services and people around us.  When we end up disconnected, life seems harder no matter how much effort we use to fix a situation.

The goal of Serve Grant County is to simplify connections.  When you search through opportunities on the website we even have a big, blue button that asks you to “CONNECT” to the listed organization.  Our hope is that you not only connect to the organization, but also to those the organization serves and fellow volunteers.  The deeper your connection, the more significant your link to others becomes, and suddenly you could find yourself with a wealth of friends and neighbors working together to build a stronger community.

The true joy of connection is that it can be created through something as effortless as a smile.  However, if you’d like to take a further step go ahead and click that blue button on one of the volunteer opportunities.  It could be the start of so many new connections that will enhance your life and others lives.

If you are an organization that wants to connect with Serve Grant County, you can find our partnership agreement at http://servegrantcounty.org/organizations /.   We’d love to have you connect!

One Small Step

We all do it.  Tell ourselves things like “I hate yardwork so they won’t want me,” or “I’m not good with people.  You have to be a people person to help.”  It’s easy to find reasons not to take that first step into the unknown and volunteer.  Want to know a secret?  YOU, yes YOU, are exactly the person our community needs.

Maybe you love to cook?  You pour your love into the meals you whip up for family and friends and wait in anticipation to see their faces when they take that first bite. Guess what?  Circles of Grant County needs volunteers to provide meals for their Tuesday night meetings.  Are you a natural leader?  Put that strength to good use by helping out at Rock the Way in Gas City Park where you can direct people and answer questions.  Find your peace under the sunshine in the garden?  St. Martin Community Center needs groundskeepers to help with planting flowers, pulling weeds, and raking.  You could enjoy the fresh air and make the world pretty.  Not bad for a day’s work.

The truth is you have gifts and talents and there is an organization that is looking for exactly what you have to offer.

The population of Grant County is nearly 70,000 people.  On our own, we can make small changes, but 70,000 people reaching out to help one another could change our community in ways we can’t even imagine yet.

So take a small step.  Search around on the site and find the opportunity that connects with your passion.  Then take the leap and find YOUR way to Serve Grant County.

What does poverty look like?

Circles of Grant County hopes to answer that question for you March 22nd @ 6PM when they hold a Poverty Simulation at First United Methodist Church in Marion, IN.  RSVP information is found in the header above.

Andrew Sprock, Director of Circles of Grant County, provides some insight on what to expect and how you can support Circles and aid families struggling to break the cycle of poverty.

Opportunities to volunteer with Circles of Grant County are on the Serve Grant County website!

What started the idea of Circles of Grant County holding a poverty simulation? 

Andrew: Circles of Grant County is part of a network of Circles communities throughout the nation.  Poverty simulations are something several of the other Circles communities do and have found it to be a great way to engage the folks in conversations about the experience of poverty.  Have a better sense of the challenges that those who live in poverty deal with can build empathy, which is a critical bridge across the economic class divide and is essential to building the partnerships and cooperation it takes for a community to effectively address poverty.

What do you see as the biggest hurdles families face when trying to rise out of poverty?

Andrew: The Circles model was built in response to research that identified some very distinct differences in the values, practices and beliefs that are common to families in poverty, middle income and upper income.  These are not just different socioeconomic categories, but really are different cultures!  The research goes on to identify that the that the most effective way to empower families to move from poverty to middle income is to connect them with other families who are from middle or upper income.  Out of these relationships come connections to resources that middle/upper income families have, a greater familiarity with some of the hidden rules and cultural values/practices that are associated with the middle income “culture.”  One of the things that is true of most of us is that the people we are closest to often share a similar income range and economic experience.  One of the biggest challenges for families who want to overcome poverty is that the people they are closest to are often times in a very similar economic situation.  The resources, patterns, and support structure provided by families in a similar situation don’t necessarily connect them with the resources and practices that can change that situation.

So, one of the biggest challenges is really the divisions between people of different socioeconomic situations.  All of us face things that we can’t overcome on our own, and when we are there we need others to walk with us in it!  When poverty is the challenge a family is facing, one of the things that can be helpful is relationship, friendships with those whose life experience is different from their own.  Through those friendships both the family working to overcome poverty and those in middle/upper income can learn and share resources that can enrich all of their lives and equip families with the extended network of support that can empower them to overcome poverty!

What ideas do you hope people take away from participating in the simulation?

Andrew: The simulation is an experience designed to stir conversation about the perceptions and challenges of poverty.  I hope that for those who participate the next conversation they have about poverty or related issues will be different.  It will be different because they have a greater sense of the challenges, they have more empathy for those in poverty, and whether they came in as one intimately familiar with poverty or not they leave with a little more hope that others really do want to know and understand the challenge in order that we might be more effective in together working to empower families who desire to overcome poverty and addressing the systems that make it difficult for those families to do so.

How can the community help Circles of Grant County? 

Andrew: There are a variety of ways to be engaged with us.  1) We are always looking to connect with people who are motivated to overcome poverty or who are willing to walk with such a family along that journey.  2) We meet weekly and share a meal together before our meeting.  If you are a part of a group who would be willing to provide a meal on occasion, that would be a big help.  3)Additionally, each month we host an evening where we seek to learn and problem solve some of the systemic barriers that are common to families working to move from poverty.  We welcome participation there!  4) As a relatively new organization in our community we are still building a basis for our financial sustainability.  We would love for people to join in the effort to transform our community little by little through empowering families to thrive.  We would welcome you to consider a regular donation to our work, whether that be $10 a month or a million it is going to take a collection of people who are willing to offer what they are able in order that we can together lift our community toward the future we hope for.